Wednesday, October 28, 2015

A Relaxed Labour Weekend

It was labour weekend. Gusto namin makalabas and gusto rin namin makapahinga.

But first things firt. First birthday ng inaanak ko and the venue was moved to Glen Eden. Coz of this at dahil rin may pasok si hubby pag Sabado, the kids and I took a cab. At the party, it was good to see Max looking out for 2 year old Sophie. And it's nice for Rose to join the musical chairs game.

It was fine and sunny the next day. We ditched the idea of going far (taking the motorway) to check out other beaches. Instead, we brought the kids to Point Chevy. It was windy, perfectfor wind surfing and para-sailang. We saw a couple of them on the water. The kids love to play on the beach. The wind was too cold for hubby and Rose so we eventually moved to Cornwall Park where we had some hot noodles and coffee. We brought the mini-gas stove with us.

The next day, labour day itself, I was able to re-organise the cupboard and spent the day relaxing and cooking. Hubby took the kids out to ride their scooters. That evening, they had a quick trip at the flying fox too. They were both smiling when they got home, and actually felt tired which was perfect as it was time for bed. It's certainly a better day for us as we were able to rest, and not get caught in traffic.

Sometimes, it's the little things that makes life worthwhile.

Tuesday, October 13, 2015

Hold On to Your Kids - They Grow Fast!

As our kids grow, naturally our parents, our relatives, even ourselves grow old too. I met Cora last Saturday. She was holidaying with her husband here in New Zealand, visiting their son and his family. She has another son who now lives in LA. Their house in Katipunan is now empty. They now travel regularly, visitng their kids who now live in two different countries.

Cora said to enjoy our kids coz once they become teenagers, they won't be needing you anymore, except maybe when they're hungry. She said that by that age, they'll often be away with friends or doing school projects.

A week ago during drop off, my son said "Ok Mommy, you can go. That's alright. You can go to the office now." And my daughter, lately has developed the art of diplomacy by saying "Just let me do this Mommy. Don'tbe angry alright?" She's 4.

Whenever I look at their photos and videos from last year, I notice the many changes. From babies, to tots. And now I have a young boy who can't wait for his two wobbly teeth to fall off so he can be a pirate. And my very articulate baby girl can't wait to go to Primary next year.

It was early last year, I was still pushing the pram to daycare with Rose on the seat and Max standing on the back. Now Rose is the big sister at Tots.

My father died end of May 2014. A few days later, we celebrated my son's fifth birthday and I do recall Ate Riza celebrating her daughter's 6th birthday in between the wake. Life goes on and we as parents just need to deal with whatever life throws at us. It's tough.

Thoughts on Cancer

Last night's post on FB by Ate Riza "Yesterday, may nakapang lump sa left breast si ma. nakapa ko kanina, malaki- > 4cm! It looked like a benign tumor by elastography but it had features not commonly associated with benign- so baka cancer (na mas common sa ganitong edad). Plan is to admit ma friday night, excision with frozen section sat am. I pray and hope it is not cancer...."

When Dad died last year (brain cancer), I felt scared of the idea that Mom might leave us too soonafter. Her visa application is currently with immigration and we're hoping to get news by end of the week, if not next week on the results. Plan is for her and Diana to come and visit us this December, to spend Christmas here too.

Everyone's changed since I left three years ago. The family's grown, dad got sick and died, Nanay broke her femur, people got older, Tita Dory burned her hand. Everyone's aged, including my Mom. I miss them all. I realise now how strong my family ties are.

I'm just nervous i guess. I'm anxious on what the results will be for me. What will happen to us. It's scary. I don't want to go through that process again. But no matter what the future holds, I know that we are there for each other as a family. I'm just so far away from them.

Tuesday, October 6, 2015

Spring Into October

Oktoberfest na! Nag birthday na ang mga Septembrants. Nag start na ang DST. Nag bloom na ang mga cherry blossom trees. Final week na ng school holidays! Ang bilis ng panahon. September came like a breeze.

Napuntahan na namin ang Army Bay, and I think, dahil wala naman kaming nakuhang notice, walang toll na dapat bayaran. Naging busy rin sa trabaho kasi tail-end na ng release so the usual na karipas para mailabas ang produkto. And the annual performance review has started.

It's that time of the year when sheeps give birth. The lambs were all over Cornwall Park these past two weekends. I started bringing my car to work. Yes, we finaly got our second car! There's been so many changes in our lives as we move into Spring of 2015.

It's another high of 17C today, a fine day but with that chilly breeze, it feels like it's 15C. There is something about the air, it's so fresh and crisp, not damp. It's a good day to be out in the sun.

Friday, September 11, 2015

Spring is in the Air

Habang naglalakad kaninang umaga papuntang opisina, ramdam na ramdam ko yung crisp na spring air. Iba ang lamig, feeling fresh. True enough kasi napansin ko na mas marami nang bulaklak ang mga nagsulputan. Typical spring ba ito na kung minsan mahangin, may pabugso-bugsong ulan at halos lahat ng kahalamanan ay namumulaklak? Pangatlong spring ko na ito. At ayun, medyo paubo-ubo na naman ako. Pinag-iisipan ko na ulit kung pano ko didiskartehan ang school holiday ni panganay. It's on the week after next na kasi. Malamang dalhin ko siya ulit dito sa opisina for a few days. Gusto ko sana magbakasyon pero iniipon ko kasi yun sa pagbisita nina Ma. Tsaka mahaba rin ang school break. Full time na rin kasi work ni hubby kaya kaliangan talaga i-juggle ang oras. Tuamwag na rin yung taga plunket para sa before school check ni bunso. Medyo nabigla lang ako at napa-oo sa appointment sa Monday. Pagkababa ng telepono, tsaka ko lang naisip na mas maigi pa sana na sa ibang araw na lang at huwag sa Lunes. Hay! Tingnan natin kung pwede pa ma-reschedule.

Mula nang nag fulltime work si hubby last June, para na akong robot sa bahay. Gising ng maaga, luto, ihanda ang mga bata at ihatid sila pa-eskwela at daycare. Habol sa bus, sana hindi ma late pero parati naman ako late. Buti na lang hindi mahigpit sa opisina at payag naman sila na 9:30am ang pinakamaaga ko na appointment. Pag-uwi, pa-meryenda ko ang mga kids, luto ng hapunan. Ligpit/ linis sa kusina. Sipilyo o paligo sa mga bata at patulugin dapat sila ng alas otso. Kung kaya pa ng powers ko, magsalang ako ng labahin habang nagluluto para sampay siya sa gabi, at para matuyo ang labada kinabuksan. Ulit na naman the next day.

Dahil Spring na, nag-iisip ako ng mga proyekto na akma sa panahon. Nag-aabang lang ako ng araw para mapaarawan ko lahat ng beddings. Gusto ko rin na pahanginan ang buong bahay. Gusto ko na rin palitan ang mga kumot, yung mas manipis na dapat kasi hindi na rin naman ganun kalamig ngayon di tuload nung winter. Mukhang nagagamay ko na ang pagpalit ng season dito sa Auckland. Ewan ko lang sa ibang lugar, last week nag winter blast ulit. Pahabol lang daw yun. Sino ba naman ang may gusto sa snow kapag Spring.

Thursday, August 6, 2015

Getting an Eye Exam

I booked an eye exam with Specsavers and the experience has been great! My schedule was at 12:20pm at Newmarket and I left the store at 1:20pm, with my new prescription, and a purchase on 1 pair of clear and 1 pair of prescription sunglasses (buy one, take one). It would be my first time to do this here in NZ. In Manila, you can just go to any store, look through a machine to check your grade and you can purchase any eyewear that you like. Prescription sun glasses weren't popular then. Here I was handled by an Optometrist first before being turned over to an assistant who helped me go through the items and packages available in store. The process was seamless and not overwhelming and confusing which was my usual experience in getting new eye glasses. It helped that I did not have my kids in tow and that it was midweek. I always prefer walking in stores that are not busy as I often get the best service. Karen, the assistant who helped me, did not rush me into making decisions and has been most helpful in getting the best bargain. I can't wait to get my eye glasses in 5-10 working days. They will send me an email once it's available and will call me in case I did not respond.

Tuesday, June 30, 2015

Breakfast and Feeding the Kids

How do you survive your mornings while getting the kids ready for school?

Naalala ko dati, pandesal parati ang almusal ko.  1 to 2 pcs, with butter and sugar. Treat na kung may peanut butter. Elementary ako nun at past 5am ang sundo ng school bus. Tapos merong recess sa umaga, then lunch, then sundo na ng 3:30pm. Pag uwi, 4pm na, merienda ng spanish bread or kung anu man. Dinner is at 7pm, after the news.

Napaisip tuloy ako, madami ba ang pinapakain ko sa mga chikiting ko? For breakfast, usually:
- a bowl of oatmeal with banana and/or coco crunch
- ham, egg and cheese muffin (parang sa McDo)
- sausage (or ham), egg and rice with ketchup
- 1 slice of bread with peanut butter and slices of banana
- toasted sandwhich: egg and cheese
- quiche (made with eggs, potato, veggies and ham/bacon/sausage)


Gusto ko sana walang drama sa umaga kasi nakakapagod rin ang manuway at madaliin ang mga kids. I try to get them to bed early para maaga rin sila magising. But lately, past 7am na sila bumabangon, very late na for me kasi approximately 1 hour sila kung kumain. Kasama na dun ang pagiging tulala, kulitan at kung anu-ano pang distraction while eating. Si Rose kapag tinapay ang almusal, ang tagal bago maubos. She doesn't like eating yung gilid ng tasty so kailangan pa pilitin.

Ang payat ni Max! Parang kami ni Alan nung bata. But he has 2 snacks in the morning, and lunch at 1pm, then meron din siya merienda for after school. Around 5pm or past 5pm na kasi siya nasusundo. pag uwi sa bahay, merienda ulit. Then dinner at 6:45pm. Hindi ko siya pinagbabaon ng kanin. Usually something na meat with bread.

Si Rose, merong morning tea (9am), lunch and afternoon snack na crackers at daycare.

I may be running out of ideas. I just want our mornings hassle free/ fight-free. Hay!

Thursday, June 11, 2015

Happiness in Being Idle

I never thought it's possible, but it is. Twiddling thumbs, studying, twiddling thumbs, planning, twiddling thumbs, coaching, twiddling thumbs, learning how to drive! Yes folks, it is happening. I booked for a driving lesson package and already completed my first lesson. I am now contemplating on the idea that soon, I will be free and independent. I am taking advantage of our current circumstance. So despite the lull in my career, at least there are other areas in my life that I can start improving on.

Wednesday, May 27, 2015

TVNZ Primetime Reality Shows

The only thing that I find interesting on TV are these reality shows: Border Patrol, Code 1, Women in Blue, Police Ten 7 and Serious Crash Unit. I learn a lot from these shows especially on how to carry oneself well when in an emergency or when being confronted by the authorities. In Border Patrol, I realise how sensitive both Austalia and New Zealand is when it comes to plant and food products. A dream catcher, once a popular ornament back home, is considered plant material and if not declared, would cost you a hefty fine. So when travelling to these countries, especially in New Zealand, best to tick yes in the food and plant items to declare them anyway to avoid fines. Be careful with shoes and outdoor equipment. Make sure that they're clean (with no soil or plant life stuck on it) as they are bio hazards. Food items should be commercially packaged, and not just vacuum sealed.

If the products are not allowed, it will just be confiscated and destroyed. At the minimum, you should be able to avoid getting fines by simply declaring these items as it's already too late when customs catch it. And don't risk taking a joint before your flight to NZ as you have the risk of being deported, as what happened with one Swiss visitor.

When you're driving and a police car passes by, move aside to the left and stop. Officers really get pissed off when you don't stop and that means you're breaking the law -- more fines! It's good to know which number to dial (111) for emergencies especially when witnessing or being in an accident. Help comes by quickly and it's good that there are still plenty of good samaritans here in New Zealand. The locals are usually first in the scene so it's good to be aware on what's happening around your neighbourhood as well.

Watching these shows gives you a good idea on how are people like, what the communities and the authorities are like as these shows are good in providing awareness and in reminding folks that simple mistakes could make a huge dent in people's lives.

Fending Off The Work Blues

I still believe that we are what we make of ourselves. I'm not really interested in climbing the corporate ladder. I just want to find fulfillment in my job. I want to be happy at work and I want the people around me to be happy too. In Manila, I've been blessed with really good managers, many of whom has influenced me and have been supportive of me throughout my career. Now things are different. It seems like people go to work for the sake of it. For them it's just work. I still struggle to accept that. We spend so much time in the office than we do with our families that I think downplaying work is like denying yourself with being happy in life. It would be great if you can actually feel a sense of accomplishment and a sense of moving forward with the business. Hopefully this isn't always the case. Hopefully things will get better for me.

Thursday, April 23, 2015

Daffodil Place

Poppies everywhere! While the rest of the country are getting ready for the Anzac ceremonies tomorrow, our friend Loraine has to prepare herself to undergo radiation in the next half hour or so. When hubby saw the ambulance at our driveway yesterday, he knew that it was Loraine. She's a cancer patient and yesterday has been a stressful day. Her friend Nicolette is her support partner but she too is going through hospital treatment from a nasty spider bite that she got from Aussie during a recent trip. Loraine happens to be the grandmother of our neighbour's son. She's told us about her situation a couple of months back and has invited us to come for a visit once she starts treatment. So today, we did.

The Domain Lodge is actually home to cancer patients who are currently undergoing treatment. She just had to cross the street, to the hospital to undergo treatment. She's staying in the Daffodil Rooms and despite being a bit wobbly, she happily gave us a tour of the place, showing us the kitchen, the deck, the library and her room. It's a nice place, just a like a hotel but of course, you you'd rather not be in there.

I can't help but feel nostalgic about the whole experience. Like what hubby said, her journey is just starting. We lost my Dad to brain cancer about a year ago. I'm hoping it will be better for her. I can sense her fear and how she's just trying to be strong. We'll support her as much as we can, and for as long as we can.

Friday, April 17, 2015

PinoyKiwi Forum

I remember before how hubby and I painstakingly combed through the internet to find out about everything to help us start out here in New Zealand. Most of the information were at least 5 years old. There really wasn't much that we found and thus, I've taken the popular Ka Uro's pages to heart.

We were fortunate to have dealt with a reliable immigration adviser. They really took care of the visa process. We just focused on securing the proper documents. And, as part of their service, they have directed us towards the right resources from authorised clinics to migrant services here in Auckland. I arrived in Auckland with just enough information that has helped me succeed in my job search visa, securing my family and in acquiring our residency status. It was a very expensive experience but it was all worth it.

Recently, I chanced upon a forum called PinoyKiwi. It's been up for 3 years and have recently just celebrated their anniversary with a get together in Auckland. I noticed that a good number of members hailed from Singapore. It was organised and up to date. They even have a schedule for a daily live chat. The moderators and active members do provide well researched information. Success stories and other experiences are also shared. There were plenty of comments/ advise on how to be cautious with dubious actions/ fees of agencies. Folks who raised a question are often directed to facts, apart from personal opinions. And it's good to see constructive conversations in the thread, which was good so as to avoid wasting people's time.

It's nice to see how the efforts being put into this by these young and intelligent volunteers comes from the pay it forward culture of Pinoys here in NZ. Keep it up PinoyKiwi!

Thursday, April 16, 2015

Throwback


I used this photo of me in our Social Club event called "Quiz with a Twist" wherein they gathered baby photos and trivial information on the babies for participating teams to guess. The winning team actually got all of them correct.

This was taken at the PICC during my aunt's capping ceremony. It's nice to see all the young faces. I actually see my son in this toddler's face.

Lunch: Walking to Narnia



I needed to clear my head. The weather's lovely, perfect for a lunch time walk. I haven't been to this side of the Domain. I thought I'd turn left for a change and it's a refreshing change.

The lamp posts reminds me of the opening scene in The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe. These are bronze sculptures by Chiara Corbelletto 2005 and Charlotte Fisher 2004 respectively.

There are no ducks in this area and the path leads to the Auckland Bowling Club. The roads here lead to the CBD (see the Sky Tower on the right, behind the crane).


I Thought I Had a Eureka Moment

Woke up at 4am, and was still thinking about how idle I was at work. It is a scary thought coz that means I'm next in line for redundancy. My manager and 2 other managers were made redundant just last October. And no, there was no compensation. Just a 4 week notice.

Then eureka!

Operations have a new project and I thought it to be in line with the docs streamlining initiative of the Docs team. I wanted to project manage, even do BA work for it. Besides, the head of Operations is a sensible manager who has earned my respect. He's always been supportive and forward thinking. I even thought about getting the Docs Team lead heavily involved as I think our combined skills will complement each other.

So when I came to work, I talked to the Docs Team Lead. The more he explained about their initiative the more that the idea started to dissipate. I really felt lazy after talking to him. I even wanted to to go home.

It's tough when you're left with a manager who can't help but assume everyone's duties. And she then tends to just focus on what's hot at the moment, forgetting about BAU things, and gets really distracted with whatever or whoever is jumping ang screaming at the moment.

So I went out for a walk. Had to tell hubby about my concerns over the phone. Then I went out for a walk at the Domain to help clear my head. Now I'm tempted to leave early, skip tomorrow and just focus on submitting job applications.

Thursday, March 26, 2015

Switching Energy Providers

Last night, hubby and I did a review on our power bills and searched online to see if we can actually get some savings by switching providers. We've only been with two energy providers, Genesis Energy and Mercury Energy. It turns out that they've got the most expensive rates based on pricing trends gathered by Powerswitch. There are a number of energy (electricity and gas) providers and they are equivalent to the retail side of Meralco. Back home, Meralco covers both distribution as well as retail and they're the only provider in the metro so you can't really do anything with their prices.

We still can't figure out what daily fixed charge and variable rate means. But what I did learn was that we fall under the Low User category. And we also noticed that we've been paying more since we switched to mercury.

Powerswitch gave us a lot of information and upon filling in their form, we decided to give Energy Online a try as they are in the lower level in terms of pricing and overall review seems to be ok, like clarity of bill, service, etc. I've heard about them from a tv commercial which was under the theme "EnergyWise". This series of commercials gives all sorts of tips to save on energy like getting Energy Star rated whiteware, insulation tips for the home, even info about energy-efficient tires.

SwitchMe provides a similar service to Powerswitch. They will present a list of available price packages across various vendors showing you how much you can save by switching over.

And running into this website http://www.canstarblue.co.nz/utilities/electricity-providers/ was just a bonus as they provided consumer ratings across vendors from 2014.

I'm familiar with Consumer.Org as I frequent their site often and even availed of membership previously while I was just starting out. When you're not at all familiar with the brands and vendors, this website provide sufficient information to show test results, findings, etc on consumer products, including energy providers. This is an overview that I found while looking for reviews on Energy Online: https://www.consumer.org.nz/articles/energy-providers

We switched to Mercury late last year because a door salesman told us that we can save more and that he will give us a fixed rate for the next six months. The six months is over and then they offered me a fixed price plan for two years. This is what prompted us to do our research to see if we are really saving. We weren't comfortable with the rates so we've decided to switch.

It can be confusing to compare price packages and the above online services helped simplify things. End of the day it's how much saving you're going to have. So we'll see how things will be like with Energy Online.

Tuesday, March 24, 2015

Checklist for a New Home Buyer

AKLNZPINOY put together a seminar for new home buyers last Friday night. It was sponsored by ANZ and the event was free so I went.

  1. Learn how to use a mortgage calculator. This was a tip from Ka Uro himself. Yes, finally met him in person. These free apps should give you an idea on how much you’re actually shelling out in a periodic basis. This is a good indicator if you are actually financially ready for this.
  2. Talk to your bank (or whoever will be providing the loan as I believe NZ Home Loans is another competitor in this trade).
  3. By the end of the conversation, you should be able to
    • Determine how much money the bank is willing to loan you
    •  Determine the payment options (fixed term, flexi, or a combination)
    • Understand what equity means
  4. Talk to real estate agents
    Now that you have your virtual money ready, then it’s time to look at houses. From what I gather, it’s always better to deal with real estate agents than with direct sellers. This is because agents by law are obliged to declare information on the property. And no, you’re not paying these agents. They get paid for by the seller, based on a % value of the property.
  5. Get a LIM report and a Builder Report
    If you already have a property in mind, before making an offer, get a LIM report and a Builder report.
    A LIM report gives you a summary of the compliance report on the property by the local council. Once you’ve bought the property and there is work that the council requires, which may have been neglected by the previous owner, then you’ll be responsible for it.
    The Builder Report would cost around $500 and this provides you with data on the actual state of the house (structure, moisture level, etc.). The report is able to capture things that are not visible to the naked eye and may impact the value of the property. Both the agent and the solicitor have advised us how important this is, coz $500 is worth the amount for a $500K that you’ll be spending for the property. Sometimes, it may result to letting the vendor know and the vendor may do the repair/ fixes themselves or it can be something that you can use to negotiate with especially if it impacts the value of the property.
  6. Talk to your solicitor (lawyer)
    Let’s say you already want to make an offer, it is best to talk to your solicitor first and make sure that he signs off on the contract before you submit it to the agent. Once you’ve made an offer, that is already considered binding. We’ve been warned to sign only 1 contract. Signing two contracts at the same time means you are tied to two properties, and no, you cannot back off from it unless conditions have been breached, thus impacting the value of the property. Atty Garcia said that here in NZ, hindi trabaho ng lawyer ang makipag-areglo. Taga-advise at guide lang sila. And he cautions us to have the contract be under your terms, not the vendor’s because this is all about you making the purchase. Hence, you need to be comfortable with the terms and conditions in the contract.

Thursday, March 19, 2015

Getting Ready for the Cold

Cyclone Pam hit Vanuatu hard last week and fortunately, it weakened as it reached the North Island last Sunday. It still brought some showers to Auckland and with it was a noticeable drop in temperature. It is Autumn and when my daughter said that she's not feeling well, I got a bit concerned. Rose kept saying that she's tired so we had dinner early, gave her paracetamol, a lukewarm bath and soonafter, she was fast asleep. Her temperature went up to 37 and it came back to normal later that night. She probably caught the chill since yesterday was a bit cold and somehow, she managed to take off her jumper coz i would imagine that it can feel hot when you're  just running around the centre all day.

I remember last year, she had frequent colds and by late July and then August, she was often home for a few days to fight off the flu. Flu shots are supposed to be available in April. They're free for children and it's given to all employees at work too. The kids didn't get it last year coz they were already sick. I'm hoping we can give them the shot this year to at least minimize the risk of having a flu. It can be tough to have the entire household sick especially coz we don't have immediate family to come over and look after them.

I'm really hoping that we are better prepared this time for the cold months. That means an extra dose of Vitamin C, a glass of honey lemon drink once a day and just frequent washing of hands.

Wednesday, March 18, 2015

What you need on the first week in New Zealand

Last week, a friend of mine shared their good news. They got their residence visa na raw and are planning to come here January next year, after niya manganak. She has a sister who’s been working here for about a year now and I’m sure excited na rin yun for their move. My friend and her husband are former colleagues. They have a 1 year old daughter and are having another one soon!
So looking back, what do we need to prepare.
Ideally for them, assuming they have family support at home for the kids, dapat mauna na muna yung husband at susunod na lang silang mag-iina kapag may work na si hubby. Why? It’s to keep their expenses to a minimum. When they arrive kasi,  their expenses would have to be shouldered by how much money that they bring. Siempre, mas mataas ang standard of living dito kumpara sa Pinas so food, transport and shelter expenses would have to be paid from your hard earned Pinas money. It’s only until you start earning NZ dollars can you actually start budgeting properly. So hangga’t hindi ka pa kumikita ng NZ dollars, you still can’t help but convert everything to Philippine peso.  Yung bago kong officemate, nagmadali sila assuming na it’s all the same. Which is not! It’s cheaper to do flatting when you’re by yourself. You’re basically just paying for the room and don’t even have to pay for electricity, water and internet.  You can’t do this with the family coz you need to get your own place, and with it goes all the utilities. Rent is the biggest portion of your expense so think about this seriously.
What you need on the first week in New Zealand:
1.       A place to stay
a.       Rent is paid weekly. If you’re moving to a unit, you’ll have to pay the following (or at least something similar to this list) at the start:
·   Bond of 3 weeks rent
·   One week rent in advance
·   Letting fee of 1 week plus GST
b.      When you rent a place, it only comes with a stove with oven. There is cold and hot water. Everything else (fridge, watching machine), you’ll need to bring yourself. I paid a fair price for my fridge and washing machine from the Appliance Shed. I noticed that Harvey Norman and Noel Leeming were a bit too expensive for me back in November 2012.
c.       It will save you lots if you can bring your bedsheets and pillow cases, assuming you will be using the same size of bed (Queen). But apart from those, you’ll need to buy duvet and duvet covers here. You’ll need thess for the cooler weather. For me, Briscoes is the place to buy all things for the home, including heaters as they are reasonably priced and the quality is really good compared with Farmers, Noel Leeming, The Warehouse and Kmart. Just wait for at least 60% discounts as this will save you lots. Don’t buy anything from Briscoes at the normal price as I noticed that they just put a high mark up so they can always have a “Sale”. Same thing for The Warehouse.
d.      If you’re moving to your own place, it’s worth bringing your plates, cutlery, basic kitchen utensils, pots and pans with you. Otherwise, you’d buy a whole new set of kitchen and dining things that you probably already have so consider saving your money from these unnecessary purchase.
e.      You can delay buying a washing machine and use the classic hand washing, like I did or, you can just go to laundry shops. A colleague before insisted that I get a dryer especially for the winter months. But we managed to survive up to now, without using a dryer. A dryer also sucks up a lot of electricity. We used a dehumidifier to help us dry clothes indoors during winter. It’s certainly a cheaper alternative. And if the sun’s up, we use the clothesline to dry our clothes.
2.       Know how to get around Auckland
a.       Maxx.co.nz provides you the bus, train and ferry time tables and routes. I used this as well while looking for a place to rent. Kasi requirement ko yung maraming bus options and shorter travel time so it’s easier for me to get to and from work. If you live in sub-urbs outside Central Auckland, frequency ng bus is every 30mins to an hour so if you miss the bus, sira na schedule mo!
b.      Get an ATHop card. It’s cheaper to use ATHop card (you just tag on/off in the bus, ferry or train) than if you pay in cash.
                                                               i.      Kids 5 and below are free
                                                             ii.      Know that there are differences in fares for child, student and adult.
c.       Get all the maps in Britomart
                                                               i.      Libre yun and it helped me understand the geography better. Yes, there’s google maps but, I still found these maps very useful as it helped me find the bus stops, understand the bus and train routes, and know how easy or complicated it can be for me to get from point A to B.
d.      Get a car if you have the money for it
                                                               i.      Auckland is such a wide city and having a car certainly cuts down the commute time. I used to walk 20mins to get to the train station, spend 30 mins in the train (assuming it’s on time) and then walk 12 mins to get to the office.
                                                             ii.      Get a second hand car, just something that runs and can get you around. Then later on you can always sell it or swap it for a better car.
e.      Use your feet.
                                                               i.      Wear comfortable shoes and know that roads can be hilly. Don’t be surprised to see locals, especially children walking barefoot. That’s normal.
                                                             ii.      Walk around your neighbourhood. Walk to discover new routes, shortcuts and to see the locals.
3.       Get a Bank Account
a.       The bank will only require a passport. You do no need to deposit any amount upon opening an account.
b.      They will give you an EFTPOS card which you will need this for most of your purchasing transactions. Here in Auckland, most of the shops use EFTPOS. Bihira yung cash only na stores. In fact, you can survive a year without using cash.
c.       All bill payments and even your rent ideally should be processed via internet banking. Note that you can get charged if you ask for paper statement of accounts. You can schedule payments (like your weekly rent), and make one-off payments. Bank to bank transactions are normal.
4.       Internet connection – for job applications and to find every other info like bus time tables, etc.
a.       If you’re just flatting, usually, kasama na ang internet access sa weekly rent mo. But if you’re moving to your own unit/ house, you need to get an internet plan (packages can be a combination of mobile plan and internet, pure internet, internet and landline)
b.      The big internet providers are Spark, Vodafone, 2degree. Just walk in their shops (just google their website for package details and shop locations) and make the arrangement there.
c.       Most of the big retailers here have a website thus shopping online is pretty common and can actually be convenient.  You can even have your grocery delivered to your door (Countdown has this service)
d.      If you’re in IT, having an updated LinkedIn account helps
5.       A NZ mobile number –so employers can contact you
a.       If you have your data phone, tsagain mo na yan. Be sure to bring a converter with you, for all of your gadgets kasi mas mahal kung dito ka pa bibili.
6.       Apply for IRD number
a.       This is like your TIN. Employers will be asking for this. The sooner you get this done, the better.
b.      You’ll need at least your passport and/ or a driver’s license
c.       This can be done at any KiwiPost shop (if you have a driver’s license) otherwise, you’ll need to go to the IRD office in Takapuna or Manukau.  Just check out their website: http://www.ird.govt.nz/
d.      Upon application, it will probably take 10 working days for you to receive your IRD via mail
7.       Know where to get food
a.       Cooking your own meals is always cheaper than buying them
b.      Know where to get the fairest price on food/ grocery items:
                                                               i.      PakNSave has the cheapest retail prices on grocery items, and New World is the most expensive. I used to go to Coundown and it was only half a year later when I realized that I can save a lot (at least $50) if I go to PakNSave instead. And this is where we buy our rice too kasi hubby still can’t do without rice.
                                                             ii.      Average cost of meals is $5 to $8.50 – I would compare this to the budget lunches that we have sa Manila, yung P50, P75, P80 meals. No drinks so it can save you lots if you just bring a water bottle. P2.50 rin ang cheapest na bottled water that you can get from a dairy.
                                                            iii.      There are Asian stores that carries Pinoy products so yes, steady ang supply namin ng toyo, patis, suka, knorr cubes, at sinigang mix. Nasa pantry namin yan parati.
8.       Enrol yourself, and the family to a nearby GP clinic
a.       This is very important especially to those who have children as the government provides a good portion of health subsidy
b.      GP services and most medicine for children 5 and below are free
9.       Pre-school
a.       Kindergarten:
                                                               i.      If your child is 3 years old or is approaching 3, he/ she is eligible for enrolment at a local kindergarten. Hindi nila yan tatanggihan and free naman (donation lang ang hingi nila).  Note that you might be put on a waitlist depending on the current roster and capacity of the kindergarten.
                                                             ii.      You can look up Auckland Kindergartens or just survey your local. It’s ideal to have the kids attend these sessions so they can grow their social wings
b.      Think about other options like daycare, play centers, etc.
                                                               i.      Think about lang muna at this stage kasi these are mostly paid services Hindi naman ito mandatory. But once you start working, siempre iisipin mo rin kung saan mo iiwan ang mga chikiting
10.   School – primary school pa lang ang panganay ko so that’s all that I can share muna
a.       If your child is at least 5 years old, you can enrol him already sa Primary School, 9am to 3pm usually ang oras ng pasok; You’ll only pay for a donation, and school supplies.  Ideal rin to enlist your children to the local primary school even if they’re still toddlers so the school can better prepare themselves by knowing the upcoming number of new entrants.  Hindi kayo tatanggihan ng school. They will only ask for some proof to show that you’re actually living within their zone like Tenancy Agreement and Utility bills.
b.      The school uniforms can be expensive so just start with the basics kasi hindi naman sila usually very strict. Also, kung di ka ma-selan, ask the school where you can get second hand uniforms. I got a pair of shorts for my son kasi walang available sa store before, and he’s been using it for 2 terms now. Ok pa rin naman, pwede pa siguro yun for 2 more terms.
c.       Ask about Before School Care and After School Care
                                                               i.      This is for working parents who need to drop their kids earlier or pick them up much later than the school hours.
d.      If you want to enrol your kids to a Catholic School (kami sa Marist), kahit na baby pa yan, magpa-enlist na kayo agad even if you’re not sure that you’re actually enrolling the child to that school kasi mahaba ang waiting list, at least that was my experience here at Marist Primary Mount Albert.  I enlisted both my kids to the school when they arrived back in early 2013 when they were still 3years old and 1year old. Pasok na sa roster yung 1 year old ko for 2016 but my son was on waitlist. When he turned 5 mid last year, nasa waitlist pa rin kami so I enrolled him to another school. He finally got in at the start of this school year, February.
11.   Clothes
a.       If you arrive during the cooler months, March onwards, it is worthwhile to invest on some basic warm clothing and I highly recommend going to DressSmart for these (it’s a mall for outlet stores in Onehunga).  So by basic I mean:
                                                               i.      An outer jacket ideally with hood (coz it rains/ drizzles most of the time here in Auckland and an umbrella is not always helpful especially if there is strong wind)  - puff jackets from Kathmandu are popular, I don’t have that but I managed to survive using a hand-me-down soft fleece that I layer with another hand me down outer jacket na water proof. I also have a hand-me-down coat that I rarely use, only when it’s really cold (below 8). It doesn’t snow in Auckland so pwede na ang layering.
                                                             ii.      Thermal shirt – This helps especially if you are like me who can survive with just layering clothes. I bought 3 for $50 at Macpac back in 2012.
                                                            iii.      Closed shoes for walking – This is for those who doesn’t have strict dress codes and had to do a lot of commuting. I wore rubber shoes for about a year, and jeans most of the time. Di kaya ng powers ko ang mag dress/ skirt during cold months. I need to try it next time with fleece leggings. Hindi pa rin ako nakakabili ng boots. Hindi naman yun required, but I must say, maganda siya tingnan at siguradong hindi giginawin ang paa mo.
                                                           iv.      Dito ko lang pala na-gets kung bakit sa mga American movies, yung pambahay nila ay jeans, tipong pang-alis natin. Kasi pala dahil sa lamig, magsusuot ka talaga nun atsaka ng mga long sleeved clothes or jumpers, dahil sa lamig! At hindi dahil sa porma.
                                                             v.      Depending on the nature of your work, napansin ko na hindi naman particular sa pananamit ang mga locals dito. Timplahin mo rin ang work culture at huwag ka na lang magtaka if you’re better dressed than the rest kasi yun na ang nakaugalian sa atin sa Maynila.
12.   Apply for a Library Card
a.       Libre ito, and you can use their facilities so you can use the internet and print your documents for a small fee.
b.      You can also borrow books, CDs, DVDs and even toys!
13.   Enrol for the next Kiwi Career Success Program that is sponsored by the Auckland Chamber of Commerce.  Website: http://www.newkiwis.co.nz/global/job_seeker/kiwi_career_success.aspx

This is free and is ideal for skilled migrants who have been in the country for up to two years who are either on work or residency visa.  I learned a lot from them in terms of job search and helped me establish a small network of friends too.

Friday, February 20, 2015

Parent Information Evening

It was scheduled at 7pm and the school went through the introduction of all of its staff and their roles, the curriculum, school charter and its history. It was a good introduction for a new parent in the school and it really helped answer all the questions that has been looming in my end. By 8pm, the teachers made themselves available in their classroom so parents can have a achat with them. There was this Mom who asked about what the kids do throughout the day and the new entrant/ year 1 teachers were more than happy to provide a detailed answer. They shared with us some of their teaching techniques and how they handle the varying abilities of the students. I found it too detailed that I really just wanted to know more about how my son was doing in school. Fortunately his teacher was able to provide me with enough details that made me feel satisfied and confident knowing that he's in very good hands. I found myself walking back home at around 9pm.

I think this is a big bonus in Marist. They do provide all relevant information to the parents early on and continuously encourage parent engagement and feedback to them. Their techniques in classroom teaching is no longer about drills, worksheets and memorization. It's more about practical applications, engagement and collaborating with peers, self-thinking and responsibility to oneself. For a 5 year old, it's not Mom's fault that the student forgot his hat, it's the student's fault. And they keep telling us that we don't need to rush back home if they forgot to bring their sports gear. It's so that they'd learn. And with literacy, there is always the next day for the student to practice and figure out how to go about their writing, reading or math.

It's definitely a big jump from the very spectator type of teaching that I grew up in. And based from what I gathered, i think the year has no thing to do with skill level or capabilities. Instead, it's just an age bracketing which probably makes sense for the primary years.

Thursday, February 19, 2015

Kayaks and Bikes on the Trailer in the Carpark - who owns these?

This was an email sent to the whole office during lunch time today. On my way back from my lunch stroll, I bumped into Sam. She asked me the above question. It was unusual for my colleagues to be bringing this to work and she thought that they may have been stolen. She told me that they were already phoning the police. As we turned our heads, we did see a police mobile unit just across the road. I told her that it may have just arrived. She decided to approach them and ask. I then told her that I'd be heading back.

Looking back, was it impolite for me to leave her there approaching the police. I was concerned with the time as it was already past my lunch break. She, for some reason, has just stepped out maybe to get lunch. She also handles building administration this is why these things (in this case, an unusal parking of a trailer in the office carpark) fall under her wing.

It's these little things. Paano ba dapat lumugar?

Downtime

Tengga na naman but I am not complaining. May mga pagkakataon talaga na magbibilang ka na lang ng oras. At meron naman panahon na nasa bahay ka na or kagigising mo pa lang, sumasagot ka na sa email or tawag ng mga tao. Depende yan sa kung nasaang phase na kami sa project.
Masaya ako kapag ganitong nakakapahinga ako, kasi I use this time to do personal things like doing research on my trade, finding the best deal for items that we've been planning to purchase, and most importantly, reviewing/ figuring out how to make the most of what we have and hopefully, to pay off our remaining debts.

Sabi nga ng kaibigan kong PM/BA na nagtatrabaho sa isang NGO, dito lang sa malapit sa opisina namin, kaya nga lumipat ka dito sa NZ kasi ayaw mo nang mangarag sa trabaho. Actually, hindi ko naman alam na ganito ka-laid back ang trabaho dito. Kailangan talagang makipagay ka at sabayan mo lang ang pacing nila. Otherwise, they'd get stressed and will complain kasi di nila kayang sabayan ang effort mo. I think dahil sa Pinas na ako tumanda, it does take a lot of effort to de-couple old habits. Basta conscious ka lang sa culture sa workplace, I think you're going to be fine.

Wednesday, February 18, 2015

Milestone today: Jogging during lunch

I finally had the guts to put on my running clothes and sample the route that I surveyed last week at the Domain. I'm definitely out of shape coz it only took 10 minutes for me to start panting. I had to walk every now and then. It's sunny and the heat (at 23C) was a bit too much for me. Maybe I need to get used to it but I don't know how without putting myself at risk of having another migraine. So there I was panting, getting distracted with the trees, and the relaxing feeling whenever I go for a stroll there. I'm quite pleased to be this close to the Domain. My entire work life was often situated in commercial areas, where a building sits next to another building. And where the only sign of nature are the potted plants or the "fake" trees that were planted in commercial spaces just so it would look nice. Here you know that the trees has been around for a while and that buildings were erected around it. I actually enjoy taking walks around the neighborhood, or all the way to the Domain during lunch break as it helps me clear my thoughts and pump some blood into my system. Can't help but feel grateful for having this as a daily experience.

http://walksinauckland.com/auckland-domain-museum/

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